Pulling From Both Directions - Couples in Conflict
Pulling From Both Directions - Couples in Conflict
Every relationship has its conflicts, but in healthy ones, both partners understand that they need to work together to resolve them. However, when one partner struggles with ADHD and the other doesn’t, the conflicts are quite different.
A few months into the relationship, the neurotypical partner starts feeling ignored, dismissed, misled, and unsafe. They expected their partner to listen, understand them, be accountable, and reliable. But as they try to “fix” the ADHD partner, they end up being blaming, shaming, and controlling, almost like a parent. This makes the ADHD partner defensive and inconsistent, causing them to pull away like a rebellious teenager.
Many relationships stuck in this cycle either break up or settle for an emotional divorce, where they stay together but build resentment. This workshop will offer practical ways to break free from that pattern and learn how to work together as a team to tackle these unique challenges.
You Will Learn How To:
Identify & break free from the unseen dynamics that lead to distance, hurt, and resentment
Use tools & strategies to understand, communicate, and support each other when one partner has ADHD
Create a team-oriented approach to the relationship challenges, helping partners learn to work together to effectively navigate the unique challenges
Cost: $55 per person, includes 5 CEUs
Date/Time: Saturday, Sept 29th from 10:00 am to 3:00 pm
Sign In from 9:30 – 9:55 am. Workshop starts promptly at 10:00 am
Lunch: Bring a brown bag & beverage for working lunch
Location: Lincoln Lodge, 2040 N. Milwaukee Ave, Chicago – Street Parking
Dress: Dress comfortably & in layers, the space is cool. Please bring a mask.
You will be sent a confirmation email a week before the workshop, and you will be sent a reminder email
Come Prepared: To engage and be engaged. This will make the workshop more fun and meaningful for you & everyone attending.
Prepare for Information and Fun!!